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Sexually Harassed In Amwaj Island

Posted in Bahrain forum 12 Jan 2012, 08:26

Hi,

I just wanted to have a voice as a woman living in Bahrain.

I was running at 10:30 AM in Amwaj Islands when a man pulled over in a round-a-bout and rolled down his window. He waved me over as if he needed directions. The situation seemed innocent because many visitors have been lost in Amwaj before, and it was in broad daylight in Amwaj.

I jogged over and he started asking me questions like "Where is Tala....how do I get there....etc" I pointed him in the right direction. Then he started asking me "Where is the Lagoon..." I began to feel that something was not right. I suddenly looked down, and saw that he had TAKEN OUT HIS **** and was ********** it off!!! He was trying keep me there by asking stupid questions so that he could ......

Disgusted and shocked, I cursed at him and ran off. I waved down the Amwaj Security and luckily the man was caught. I spent the whole morning at the police station pressing charges and feeling violated as a woman.

THIS MAN'S NAME IS HASSAN MOHAMMED HASSAN BAHBOOD.

Friends have told me that he might just get off the hook, get a fine or get a maximum of 2 days in jail????

I am just so appalled by this man's actions. I feel hurt and violated. I could not believe that something like that happened in a neighborhood like Amwaj which is regarded as safe.

I've also heard that I'm not the only one, and this is not the first occurrence in Amwaj.

I just don't understand why a man would violate and disrespect a woman like that on the street. Why do these men feel that any woman walking on the street is a sex object????

I feel so sad, disappointed, and very let down in the culture and in the legal system. The fact that it is accepted that all women walking on the street is a sex object. The fact that the police actually had a small chuckle when I told them about my experience. Bahrain is a conservative country and a crime like this should be carried out with severe punishments, not just a fine or 2 days in jail. Even in more liberal countries, this man would have been given more punishment.

......so to all the women in Bahrain. Please be safe when you go out alone. Always try to go out with a buddy. If you must go alone, DO NOT EVER TALK to anyone, no matter how innocent the situation may seem. Take precautions no matter where you live, even if you think your neighborhood is safe.

Last note, I would like to thank the Amwaj Manager because he is the only person that seemed to take this situation seriously. I'm really thankful that at least one person sees the seriousness of the situation.

  • GEORGE K

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    posted by  GEORGE K in Bahrain forum 13 Jan 2012, 07:16



  • Yvonne Black

    Sexually Harassed In Amwaj Island

    posted by  Yvonne Black in Bahrain forum 13 Jan 2012, 12:51

    Angel, sorry to hear what happened to you and I’m glad that you named and shamed this man, if only you had a photo so people could see his face. Unfortunately you are not alone. I’ve been here for 2 years and this has not happened to me but a few women that I know and I’ve heard many more stories; and I’m disappointed that the police did not take it seriously; maybe there might be a civil route you can go down.

    As for George I don’t know how you feel this is funny and a joke. I hope that none of the women in your family or any that you care about are ever harassed or attacked and see how funny it. What happened to Angel has happened to thousands of women here. I don’t know how much you’ve travelled but if you are comparing real life to a movie you really need to get out more.

    You really need to think before you open your mouth

  • GEORGE K

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    posted by  GEORGE K in Bahrain forum 13 Jan 2012, 14:13



  • Yvonne Black

    Sexually Harassed In Amwaj Island

    posted by  Yvonne Black in Bahrain forum 13 Jan 2012, 14:43

    George

    If you think that what I said was an insult to you then you should think about what you said and all the billions of women in the world that have been attacked and sexually assaulted.

    I’m glad you’ve travelled but sad you have learnt nothing. Everywhere you go in the world there is good and bad and even in your own country which I’ve been to.

    Your experience and that of women in this country will be very different so you do not know what happens. I just met a woman how had to move home as she was constantly harassed just going to the cold store and the last straw was when she was chased home. Many covered ladies have men shouting things at them as they walk peacefully about their business and friends called bitch for no reason and they think because they say it in Arabic they don't understand. I've also been followed but i can stand up for myself and chase these men off.

    So no matter where in the world you are there is good and bad. It’s good that this world does not affect you and you live in peace. Most of my time here has been good, but a woman's world is different than that of a man's here.

    And you trying to tear down England just show what a little man you are

  • GEORGE K

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    posted by  GEORGE K in Bahrain forum 13 Jan 2012, 15:44



  • Yolanda Fernandez Al-Shammari

    Sexually Harassed In Amwaj Island

    posted by  Yolanda Fernandez Al-Shammari in Bahrain forum 14 Jan 2012, 11:18

    Hi Angel, I am sorry to hear about what happen to you, and it's really scary. I guess this topic turns into a nasty conversation. There's a lot of ignorance in this world and people doesn't know the meaning of the word compassion.
    On the other hand, there's good and bad people everywhere, we just need to be careful where we go and with who we talk to. Now you know next time you need to apply what we learned in US schools when we were little, Do not talk to strangers. I am really surprised about what happen to you specially in that area,, i don't live in Bahrain, but i visit that country 6 to 7 times a year, and I really like Bahrain. I don't know if can get a pepper spray and use it there, but please be careful and always look behind your back and the most important thing, speak up and denounce any incident .
    please stay safe..

  • Krish Reddy

    Sexually harrased in Amwaj Island

    posted by  Krish Reddy in Bahrain forum 17 Jan 2012, 08:41

    Hey Angel,

    Let me get straight to the point, I read the responses and I agree there are good and bad side of all places and faces. You are so upset and disgusted that you are expressing your emotions that some can understand and some cannot digest. But at the same time there are wonderful things about this country and its people. Though Amwaj is a beautiful place to live it also is not still completely occupied and less public is there, so some uncivilized creatures to tend to humiliate themselves and cause distress to the public.

    So if you still feel the same way, then you can always shift to Hidd near Lulu Hypermarket where there are lot of Europeans and Westerners and as well elite class of Locals plus you get to go the all the nearby beaches, the new park, long jogs, plenty of safety patrol 24/7 and beautiful sea stretch points all around.

    So I hope you come across good people and great human beings and you have agreat experience while staying in Bahrain.

    Cheers.......................Krish

  • Yvonne Black

    Sexually harrased in Amwaj Island

    posted by  Yvonne Black in Bahrain forum 17 Jan 2012, 12:04

    So George you feel that I insulted you? Like they way you insulted everywoman by making like of the subject? This is not about you it’s about what happened to poor Angel.

    I didn’t need to comment on what you said because it was stupid.

    So make this be the end of this and get on with your life

  • Hashem M

    Sexually harassed in Amwaj Island

    posted by  Hashem M in Bahrain forum 17 Jan 2012, 16:13

    Oh please George K!!! The difference between here and in the west is that over there they take sexual harassment as a serious crime. Over here in middle east, men (including the cops) give each other a high five for such acts. Angel I say you go girl. You spoke up and that's what matters. Bringing this to light will scare off that loser. Other women will be more cautious from now onwards when approached by men in cars thanks to you. Thank God that pervert didn't pull you in like how some Saudis like to do when visiting Bahrain for the weekend.

  • Andrew L.

    Sexually harassed in Amwaj Island

    posted by  Andrew L. in Bahrain forum 17 Jan 2012, 22:56

    Right on Hashem. People like George don't get it when it comes to topics like this, and they should realize the difference you mention. Luckily, Bahrain is much better in this regard to other mid east countries. While living in Kuwait it was common to hear of harassment, to the point where women were ran of the road while driving only so the man could get their personal information. While Bahrain does seem better (this is the first I have heard of something like this since the two years I have been here), it is a shame it has happened. It is a honorably way to treat women, and it gives all guys a bad image.

  • Shoky S.

    Sad

    posted by  Shoky S. in Bahrain forum 18 Jan 2012, 09:07

    I am really sorry to hear such kind of incident in Bahrain since Bahrain is famous for its respect and generosity. However, i am agreed with Yvonne that good and bad people are available everywhere, it’s just the number that’s vary. We should not compare the countries and cultures here and just try to work together in order to stop such occurrence from the country where we live. I have already forwarded the message to few known people and i am sure that they will take a corrective action for Amwaj security.

  •  

    Grotesque! Keep distance.

    posted by  N.C. Lawrence in Bahrain forum 19 Jan 2012, 14:57

    Angel, I am so sorry to hear what happened to you. I know how awful it is. How long have you lived there?
    I have traveled a lot, and was subject to constant insults by sexual harassment, open masturbation, and exposure by men from Asia/East when I was a guest in these countries. And believe me, I was covered up like a snowman! I don't even know how they figured out I was female :) .
    Every female I know who has traveled in these regions have the same experience and it seems very very common. What I think you have to do is 1) do NOT talk to men who are alone (they think its an intimate invitation), 2) do NOT look them in the eyes. 3) do NOT stand close to them. Maybe some of the locals have additional advice for you according to their knowledge. You do need to be careful as Bahrain has only a 2 week sentence for rape and small fines for other assaults. Its at least good the police did indeed write down your complaint, and fantastic that the manager took immediate action. Hope the police give him a real good beating! That can be much more humiliating to him than some fines he'll bribe himself out of.

    George, your response to her questions are absolutely horrid! What an awful man you are!! Shame on you.

    I have never in my entire life been sexually harassed in the west. Harassment of women is extreme in the East and in Asia, so don't even compare. Admit your problems - only then can they eventually be solved. If you always deny them or are defensive about them, nothing can change and everything remains the same.

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