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Spanish men and their Spanish temper...

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I know that's an old discussion and full of stereotypes - but I just have to share my experiences!
I've been in Madrid recently (only for one week to search a room for my upcoming internship) and therefore came across the Spanish guys.
I already heard some stories of Spanish being very "open" towards people (especially girls), but I didn't think there were THAT open! When you're walking down the street some of them yell at you, and in clubs it's even worse! In some cases it's hard to get rid of them!
Of course, you can find that kind of guys in Germany too, but not in that extent!
I think their behavior is just part of the Spanish mentality.
What experience did you make as a girl here in Spain? (boys are also welcome to give their opinion...especially Spanish ones ;-))

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  • posted by  in Spain forum 

    hi I would like to ask you dose spinish guy love a woman with doing sex in thier relationship ? and if he always meet her in the summer but no sex or make out do you think he still loves her ? mY Friend is muslim so it is impossible to accpet any man to kiss her or sex in her realtionship however she met a spainish guy in Malaga every summer before 5 years and she started thier relationship in 2007 after that he disapperaed to a few months and she got depressed after afew month he send to her love song and they come back again he always send to he love songs and he like her however he would ne accept if she asking him out , she asnwerd that question but I do not know maybe becasue she knew that she is a muslim and it is impoissible to have a sex I do not know nut in my view he is rode to answred this question , anyway he put engaged in his profile on facebook with her and she told him to change him name in feacebook becasue she wants her relationship with him secret becasue she is muslim and from conservitive country ,Saudi Arabia you konw conservitive country , and he did and he changed his name , I think to told her it is diffecult to be tograther form long trem I 'm not sure for that but you know he told her I love you but it diffcult our rlationship , she still loves him after all this becasue her age is 40 and he is 33 so she did not find guy excpet him so it hard to her to find guy in her age so that she still with him , I hope you understand but realy I want to know if spainish guy in love what he can do ? do you think he love her ? I think he like her but now in love with her as much as she in love him and he understand that she in love with him so that he did not find agirl loves him as much as she so that he still with her , I am sure he chearting her I do nor think so that spainish guy keep a way from sex becuase he has relationship with girl without sex because of love hahahah

    Thank you

  • posted by  in Spain forum 

    Seriously I dont know if you are kidding. Maybe you are on some drug and in an unexplained way you landed on another country. Without even considering your blameful actitude towards the whole forum, it is sad you dare entitle yourself to write in this offensive way. And, by the way....frankly the "prostitute cost" is something a "normal" tourist is not immediately acquainted with, unless you are really "concerned" in. You catch it?. From your photo I guess you are a poor obsessed miwamo ...
    Astonishing, it seems your priorities in life are prostitution and fashion...No any other aspect of spanish life has reached your brain during holidays?? it is clear, you are absolutely a nitwit.
    So better you avoid let your head overwhelmed by travelling ...Have you ever considered staying at home and dont show all the world you are a perfect stuckup. ??

  • Hot One

    posted by  in Spain forum 

    I ve been here only for two weeks - yet have not seen a SINGLE good looking, good smelling or polite spaniard! Serious dissapoitment as my "vision" of spanish people was quite the opposite...

    And women.... mean and ugly. I guess they are so frustrated with their cheating, dirlty partners (whom cheat because the prostitutes cost only 20 Euros) that they have to unleash it on someone who might have a smile on their face. WOW...

    And lets talk about their choices of clothes - I ve never seen so much ill-fitted dresses or such a overwhelming amount of ugly shoes. Are we in cosmopolitan city or remote village?... I do wonder...

  • posted by  in Spain forum 

    Thank you for your comment I would like to ask you dose spinish guy love a woman with doing sex in thier relationship ? and if he always meet her in the summer but no sex or make out do you think he still loves her ? mY Friend is muslim so it is impossible to accpet any man to kiss her or sex in her realtionship however she met a spainish guy in Malaga every summer before 5 years and she started thier relationship in 2007 after that he disapperaed to a few months and she got depressed after afew month he send to her love song and they come back again he always send to he love songs and he like her however he would ne accept if she asking him out , she asnwerd that question but I do not know maybe becasue she knew that she is a muslim and it is impoissible to have a sex I do not know nut in my view he is rode to answred this question , anyway he put engaged in his profile on facebook with her and she told him to change him name in feacebook becasue she wants her relationship with him secret becasue she is muslim and from conservitive country ,Saudi Arabia you konw conservitive country , and he did and he changed his name , I think to told her it is diffecult to be tograther form long trem I 'm not sure for that but you know he told her I love you but it diffcult our rlationship , she still loves him after all this becasue her age is 40 and he is 33 so she did not find guy excpet him so it hard to her to find guy in her age so that she still with him , I hope you understand but realy I want to know if spainish guy in love what he can do ? do you think he love her ? I think he like her but now in love with her as much as she in love him and he understand that she in love with him so that he did not find agirl loves him as much as she so that he still with her , I am sure he chearting her I do nor think so that spainish guy keep a way from sex becuase he has relationship with girl without sex because of love hahahah

    Thank you

  • posted by  in Spain forum 

    Thank you for your comment I would like to ask you dose spinish guy love a woman with doing sex in thier relationship ? and if he always meet her in the summer but no sex or make out do you think he still loves her ? mY Friend is muslim so it is impossible to accpet any man to kiss her or sex in her realtionship however she met a spainish guy in Malaga every summer before 5 years and she started thier relationship in 2007 after that he disapperaed to a few months and she got depressed after afew month he send to her love song and they come back again he always send to he love songs and he like her however he would ne accept if she asking him out , she asnwerd that question but I do not know maybe becasue she knew that she is a muslim and it is impoissible to have a sex I do not know nut in my view he is rode to answred this question , anyway he put engaged in his profile on facebook with her and she told him to change him name in feacebook becasue she wants her relationship with him secret becasue she is muslim and from conservitive country ,Saudi Arabia you konw conservitive country , and he did and he changed his name , I think to told her it is diffecult to be tograther form long trem I 'm not sure for that but you know he told her I love you but it diffcult our rlationship , she still loves him after all this becasue her age is 40 and he is 33 so she did not find guy excpet him so it hard to her to find guy in her age so that she still with him , I hope you understand but realy I want to know if spainish guy in love what he can do ? do you think he love her ? I think he like her but now in love with her as much as she in love him and he understand that she in love with him so that he did not find agirl loves him as much as she so that he still with her , I am sure he chearting her I do nor think so that spainish guy keep a way from sex becuase he has relationship with girl without sex because of love hahahah

    Thank you

  • posted by  in Spain forum 

    Hi!
    well, I am now living in the UK after living nearly all my life in Spain and I have to say that I see a lot more good looking guys in Spain than here!! and the shower problem that I could read ... I think that is not true. Guys in Spain use to be much cleaner than I can see in other places...
    Anyway...you can choose what guy you like the best, but I LIKE SPANISH MEN!!
    It's good to know when someone likes you, they'll just let you know!
    and what's the matter if a man looks at other women when they're with you? don't you look at a handsome guy that comes by you?... cause I do...
    if it's only looking what they're doing that's fine.

  • hi

    posted by Deleted user in Spain forum 

    I would like to ask you what Spainish guy thiniking do you think Spainish when he love he will stay with her and contact with here by skype ,facebook ,phone but no Sex . he is 33 age and she 40 age so they are adult . she loves him more but I am wonder that he did not find anygirl friend until now and he stick with his girl from different country and from Qatar so you know how the life in Arabian gulf country.

    How we know if this guy lovs her ? I think he understood here when they keep thier relationship secret and he used fake name to be as freind on here on facebook list friends bacasue in here conuntry is forbidden for agril to have a boyfirend .

    Anyway I am wonder why he still with her maybr becasue he though htat he loves him ? or loves her as friend ? I told you when he answerd on facebook this question " Would you accept if she asked you out? : he answerd "NO" why he answerd this ?
    please I do not know about Spainish guys someone told me maybe he playing and someone told me it is diffcult for Spainish guy has relationship with girl without sex

    So do you think spainish guy can love agirl with sex , or just becasue she is pretty or loves him ?

    Please I need your help

    Thank you

  • Christine W.

    posted by  in Spain forum 

    at the risk of sounding infantile: i met the man of my dreams in spain.
    he is extremely well-educated and literate, without ever having submitted to any kind of secondary school, he is unbiased to such an extent that you could even label him "objective", yet he features great emotional maturity and empathy (usually, i would consider "objectivity" to conflict with "sensitivity"). he is emotional, lives in close touch with nature, he weeps easily at the mere thought of a human/an animal dying/being hurt or injustice in general, he is not superficial at all what regards physical appearances and his thoughts are - to quote another member - "as deep as the ocean". moreover, he's down to earth despite his good looks: beautifully shaped face, colin farrell-eyebrows, deep eyes, a wonderfully curved nose, athletic body (as he's a professional athlete).

    the best thing about it being: i'm not fantasizing, he is real =D took me a while to comprehend that somebody could actually be that fantastic in so many ways, which is why it took me a long time to finally trust him.

    long story short: I've never met a man like this where i live. i'd been in spain for three days when i met him. coincidence? is he an exception? i like to believe he's the spanish rule rather than the exception =)

  • Manuel Barcina

    posted by  in Spain forum 

    Spanish, from Madrid

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