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    Why is it so hard to make friends in Switzerland??

    pubblicato da  steven wenger in Svizzera forum  

    im also in this situation,in my case it,s even worst i was born in switzerland but i lived most of my live in spain and now i came back here to this boring switzerland.
    i remember my childhood still in switzerland was not so bad had a lot of friends but i was more swiss minded and of course they where people than i knowed since kindergarden that tipical swiss they will befrend in most cases only people they now since kindergarden,school,military or work.
    they are really stubbern about knowing people in other places they dont want to know new things or people it,s like a swiss rule a no that not corect,dont speak or smile to people you dont know 10years...
    when i came back again to switzerland one of the first thing i made was to try to contact the people that played with me when i was a kid,i went to the village where i lived and i wass happy to see them specially i talked with my best girl friend after long time talking i asked her phone number,i called her 4 days later to meet for a drink
    and i wass sorprised of her reaction she sayd in a bad arogant tone lisen i dont want to date you.
    now im almoust 3 year,s here and believe or not it,s so hard to know people i try all the time.
    of course i know some people but it,s not so easy to meet swiss people they are complicated even to go for a coffe and they always are busy and tired of they work
    for the swiss they work is more important than familly friends...
    to many times i meet swiss people it can be so boring they speak so much of their work and of rules and how proud they are of switzerland.
    i live in bern i find other city,s like zurich and specially the french swiss more open and friendly.

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