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  • Claudio Enggist

    Welcome to hell - welcome to Switzerland?

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    Hi,

    After quite some time I came back here and read through the posts in this forum. My goodness! I must be struck with complete blindness that I never realized what a horrible people we Swiss seem to be. At least that's the impression one could get, when reading most of the posts here. Guys, if this is such a horrible place to live in: why are you here? What is your motivation to waste valuable time of your life in a country that you loathe so much? Have the guts and make changes in your life - and leave, for your own sanity. Let's face it: this country will not change to your liking in the next few months. But if you decide to stay here: then quit complaining and step out of your culture bubble! We are different - like all cultures. In order to get to know our culture, you need to invest time and lots of energy. Yes, it is bloody hard to make friends in Switzerland. Yes, many are closed and it is difficult to break the hard shell to get to the soft inside. But I know from many foreigners, who live here, that they considered it worthwhile. As I wrote in my post almost at the beginning of this discussion, it takes a lot of effort to make friends. Learn the language and become active in your neighborhood. Join a sports club or an association that meets your interests and hobbies. But please, stop throwing around generalities and stereotypes here. Rather start asking questions of things you do not understand. I am sure, there are plenty of users here, who would actually be willing to give you some clues.

    Claudio

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