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I'm hearing lots of terrible stories about German men and their lack of romance. Is this true? Anybody got any "real-life experience"? :-)
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Şu kişi tarafından gönderildi Margareta K : Almanya forumu
I do agree absolutely with the true in that article.
I had one relationship with the German. Since I am single and I have been dating...germans..I have to say ..there are really boring!Iwent through the history already at school, who wants to talk on the date about ancient Egypt?
Dutch are better with splitting the bill.
To all german man:Please act like a man.
visiting a german...now there's an international question..
Şu kişi tarafından gönderildi Silinmiş kişi : Almanya forumu
So, if you are in the position to visit a German friend you met on neutral territory and ask him to make plans with you regarding this trip: is it considered a faux pas? Where I come from, if I had a friend visit from overseas I would send my information to them or reassure them I can put them up- at least tell them I cannot accomodate them and suggest best plan of action so they look at finances accordingly...I wouldn't disappear behind a curtain of silence after raving about how fabulous it would be to see one another again! German/ man/ thing or just shady man thing? Your take! So much for friendship, international relations or manners and etiquette....
Blizzy Everhard
Şu kişi tarafından gönderildi Silinmiş kişi : Almanya forumu
Ha ha, Blizzy you smart cookie! One of these alround-questions that you only know from hearsay? ;-)
Looks like Blizzy from Madrid is member of the just-landed staff. She doesn`t really want to know something about German men, but inititate a smalltalk-diskussion in order to put into operation the new forum.
From my point of view
Şu kişi tarafından gönderildi Silinmiş kişi : Almanya forumu
There are for sure some of those "typical german stereotypes" around but hey, its not only germans that are like that.
Most german guys are really open minded people that wont make up false things from the very beginning. They are honest and loyal, atleast most of them. ;)
But hey, you can just find things out if you talk with german guys, so you can make up your own opinion.
stand up german men!
Şu kişi tarafından gönderildi Seppi M. : Almanya forumu
I don't really think German guys are all unromantic. Yes, there are some men who are exactly how the stereotype of the "boring, organized, cold and unromantic German boy on his way to the bank, doing his boring, organized work".
But there other men in Germany, too! Cool guys having fun, dancing through the life und calling a girl or woman beautiful and awesome without knowing her - just because they think in that second: "wow, what a girl!". Yes, in Germany you can find crazy, honest and romantic men. Not the type of latin-lover-style - we are no mexican, italian or greek people. But I think we can be proud of what we are. You will find in every country men, who are unromantic and that lie to you just to have a good night and perhaps a better breakfast at the next morning. I think, that the "typical german stereotype" ist worse than we really are.
Mexican men
Şu kişi tarafından gönderildi Silinmiş kişi : Almanya forumu
Are you sure, Sofia? Ever dated a Mexican guy? We really have the fire burning in our veins! ;)
Mine seems to be good so far
Şu kişi tarafından gönderildi Silinmiş kişi : Almanya forumu
Hey girls! I just met a german guy and im really having hopes to make things work out throughout the distance since im from Argentina. He seems to be very nice, loving and caring so far since he usually is in contact with me. But hmmm, now im kinna hesitating with what im reading over here. Still, i like him so much although im a little bit concerned about his loyalty to me, Does anybody knows here if men over there are faithful???
RE
Şu kişi tarafından gönderildi Erik C : Almanya forumu
I agree that a lot of Germans fit the stereo type of being a bit too organized and practical at times but that is not something that is universal. I think people are generally the same world wide despite a few small cultural differences we all want the same. We all want to be happy, loved ect.. Every woman should know that we men are pretty simple creatures. Food, sex, maybe some entertainment and we are good to go.:)
I have also noticed some cultural differences like at work where back home you make friends at work with your coworkers here that is not always the case. In Frankfurt what I have noticed is that things are more formal than from what I am used to in Seattle area anyways. For example I don’t even know my neighbors here.
What I think (an incurable romantic girl)
Şu kişi tarafından gönderildi Li Lu : Almanya forumu
First: Morten, your life must be fade without romance.
Second: May be German men are not romantic because German women can not deal with romance? That's what my BF thinks.
Third: Romance is not something happening on a date, or at first sight. It takes time for two people to get to know eachother, to find out what is romantic for your partner, and romance is only in a relationship. You just have it or not, otherwise you have to work hard on it. And the perception of romance is different from person to person. Romance is a just another Y in the equation of love. I think it is romantic to fix a bike in the garage with my partner for example. May be 3 persons out of 1000 think the same. I think is very romantic to bake pancakes while my BF filles&rolls them and explains me how photovoltaic panels work. The romance you have at a date (a bouquet of flowers, a bottle of wine) is more linked to the lifestyle of someone than to romance. What if the girl prefers beer to wine? Romance is not only flowers, romance is not pink. Romance is to enjoy doing something together.
Last: Latino lovers a re romantic? I harldy agree with that. My most boring dates were with a latino guy. I hope he is an exception!I think
Şu kişi tarafından gönderildi Morten Grunwald : Almanya forumu
In Germany, "individuality" counts most: People do not want to be "liked", they want to be respected. Germans as a rule tend to be afraid entering one anothers personal sphere. But thats the prerequisite for going anywhere in romance.
So many good intentions and feelings a held back, lovers cannot find themselves as they are afraid of getting brushed of. So unfriedliness is just self-protection.
Especially for men this is very humiliating. So I myself would rather have a nice evening out w/o getting in the sticky area of dating. Its just to difficult to be fun. Dating is not fun here, its work. Thats why I prefer to be single, so life is much easier and relaxed. I am 28 and gave up dating long time ago and I do not miss it at all. I just dont care anymore. Also, I never got approached by a woman who said "I think you are interesting, etc." so I just eradicated me from the dating market.