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  • Krisztian Dóra

    What is good? - traditional and conservative or liberalism

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    Yes, I think you are right.
    Only I dropped this subject on this forum beacuse I have read that someone is telling about herself as a "traditional chinese girl" in relationships whereas others don't mention this "word/definition".
    I think
    - these girls want to tell to me that they are not so liberal in relationship as/than in USA or Europe or they do not so much easy get new friendships and start a new contact with a man,
    - or they are looking a marriage couple(husband) not a boyfriend, because they have an ideal image about the happy family as their parents had so and they said that to their children it is very important,

    I think it is a very good thing if somebody have traditions if these don't tie her/his. If these keep you in freedom (these leave your freedom) and allow to decide in/about your life without restrictions.
    There are things in the life of people that a state/goverment can not controll.
    For example you will decide about which people you want to be (good or bad)
    and you do good or wrong things.
    It is good thing If somebody has own moral-system and opinion about things/ done without following the others into the wrong/bad things.
    There are very many wrong (bad) ideas in the heads of people In USA, in West Europe and Central-East (as In Hungary).
    They are thinking that it is good if everybody is liberal and it is bad if somebody is conservative.
    As far as I can see Those people think so who doesn't have any responsibility of their acts/decision and want to escape the consequence of their acts.
    For them The liberalism mean a wide freedom when they can do everything that they only want.
    If somebody thinks so than she/he will be unloyal and selfish in her/his family life.
    So you can see many divorces because they do not respect other people.
    They live out their passion (wild emotions and ideas) without any punishment.
    The right don't punish people if they do wrong things beacuse the moral is from your soul and characters.
    SO I don't think that conservative or tradition person is old-fashioned but I think that extreme/too liberal thinking can lead the people into very bad acts/done.
    For example many youngs take advantage of this situation, this system's and ideas's weakness. These girls go into relations with men very early (at 16-17 years old) because they can see this from the others and they are think that it is correct or if they don't follow their friends she will be hold in contempt. Moreover They enjoy to do it beacuse they think they are very LIBERAL and MODERN.They become bad, there are going bad.
    Their parents hardly can keep their children under controll (restrain them).
    - Who can be blamed about it? (their parents, their teachers(education), their friends, the state, or the culture? - It is very compleceted and dissappointed!)
    One person has more or less moral depends on their characters, growing up, culture, etc.
    However a young will do what she/he can look around her/his in environment because she/he hasn't had own character yet.
    - What is a good character? (How could the state show to people what is good while it acts bad things and there are corruptions, lies in the states/governmens.)

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