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It is just a matter of what people think and where they come from
posted by Joshua Ndip Ako in Germany forum 18 Nov 2008, 14:19
Compliments are part of life, even animals in the forest appreciate compliments. What do u mean by intensive compliments, compliments are compliments. We can´t live in a world where people don´t appreciate. I am from Africa but I´ve been to the US, Europe....studied with American and European students. I even worked with peace corpse guys in my own country.
My friends always tell me. hey Joshua, never trust a European girl...hey Joshua, why do u pay drinks for everyone....sometimes it differs from the way Americans think and the way European think and also differs from which part of America or Europe u come from....When I take my friends out for a drink in Africa I don´t expect them to pay for anythink...that is part of our culture.

As far as dating a girl in Germany or Europe in general is concern....i think it is just about exposure....If u meet a European girl who´ve been out of Europe or live out of Europe u will definitely know. The approach, behaviour and smile is totally different. All my friends always say, why do people always smile in Africa....I always say because humanity originated in Africa.

I will advice all the guys coming to Germany not to tell a girl `I LIKE U OR I LOVE U´, the answer will be `U DON´T EVEN KNOW ME´.

I had a friend at the university of cape town in South Africa who sincerely liked a German girl in the same faculty, one day we went out dancing, this guy approached her and told her, hey Katrina liked u ...she said to him afterwards..`U DON´T EVEN KNOW ME. Towards the end of the first semester this same guy fell in love with an American girl who `was a friend to this same girl. After one, two, four and up until now this guy is still together with this girl. The German girl later on confess to me that she never new this guy is a very nice guy.

My advice to everyone is, it might take one minute to know someone and it might equally take a 100yrs to not know someone. Sometimes we lost loved ones just because we want to go back to our cultures....the world is not static....don´t miss ur chances

It is just a matter of what people think and where they come from

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