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  • Laurie Perkins

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    dodane przez  Laurie Perkins w  Niemcy forum 

    By no means do I pity them. But regardless of what someone thinks or does....at the end of the day I know who I am. What i was trying to so clumsily say, is you going at all this the wrong way. Clean the slate and start fresh!

    I am not in your shoes and I don't know what the surrounding dynamics are in your situation with your German family. Like I said to you before, they should be your buffer, if they are not, figure out why.

    There is nothing wrong with being assertive. But you can catch more flies with honey any day. Obviously what you are doing is not working...right? So change your plan. Go at it another direction. It is you who is living there and wanting to know how survive it. if you are always on the defense you will be always hit with opposition. I can assure you of that no matter where you live.

    Sure you can be rude and condescending and sit on the opposing side at each opportunity that arises,and claim everyone is doing it, so why not me? But exactly what do you gain in the end?

    My comment about the history channel was meant only to drive home that we all have preconceived ideas about other cultures and after awhile we come to know them only as we see it over and over again.. And in my opinion your troubles have a whole lot to do with that.

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