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    The fact is:

    The Portuguese take criticism as the American mainstream does: "If you criticise, you are against us" and then they will start hating and insulting you just like they do in most forums. Intelligent people evaluate criticism. In every criticism, should always be pros and cons. The only way to evolve is to rethink, reconsider a behaviour. If you don't hear from others, it's quite difficut to face your own truth by looking in the mirror.

    There is a frase in Portuguese: " O pais da moral e bons costumes", meaning: The country of Moral and good costumes. This is something that you may hear out loud and proudly said but if you ask them what moral and costume, they will not know what to say.
    I know I'm not commenting directly to your reply but just to give examples of a deficit in reasoning which might be a problem if they keep on lying to themselves as to not need any criticism whatsoever. Criticism is evolution.
    For centuries the Portuguese say: "Portugal para os Portugueses". This sentence is out of date. New generation keeps on using it. If different reasoning, ideas, don't flow, you will always stay put, no matter how it is decorated from the outside.

    I advise you to have a more cheerful life. Stay or leave, you know what's best for all your puzzle.

    Good luck, girl!

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